Creativity
Journaling: A Tool for the Spirit
The fountain of personal wisdom may be as close as your nearest
pen.
That’s because the single most essential instrument for
nurturing your spirit is a personal journal.
The word “journal” may mean 100 different things
to 100 different people. For a psychologist, it denotes a tool
for a patient’s self-analysis. For the writer, it may be
a notebook of ideas and ramblings. For most of us, the word denotes
a day-to-day diary, a log of action and reaction.
For me, a journal is a notebook of ideas and solutions that
I have discovered using my conscious and subconscious mind.
Journaling is a remarkable device for easing worry and obsession,
for identifying hopes and fears and for allowing your creative
self to expand, increasing your level of energy and confidence.
It harnesses the power to tap into successively deeper layers
of your subconscious mind while it zaps the nervous, passive
energy that ties your stomach in knots and leads to more guilt
and worry.
Journals are tools to help you discover the wisdom you already
possess. Sometimes, this wisdom will surprise you. Other times,
it will challenge you. Always, it will come directly from you,
empowering you to trust yourself and to take action by giving
you the deep-seated knowledge that you know more than you think
you do.
This feeling of power and self-trust will translate into a more
confident mother, wife, and spirit. You will already know where
to turn when faced with difficult decisions. You will have found
the answers within yourself, and you will return there for further
instruction.
In addition to revealing your personal insight and wisdom, the
journaling process can help dispel feelings of loneliness and
confusion by helping you discover a unity within yourself. As
your conscious and subconscious mind work together to solve problems
in black-and-white, the ideas are validated and more easily applied,
even if you never share these ideas with a soul.
Rules of the Game
The act of writing has tremendous potential to tap the subconscious
and to arrange conscious thoughts in a clear pattern as words
flow from your mind down your arm, into your hand and across
the page.
Banish your internal editor. This is that voice that booms from
the darkest recesses of your brain: “You shouldn’t
be writing that,” or “Someone might see that you
wrote that."
Here are a few tricks to banish this frightening little voice.
Write quickly, allowing the words to freefall from your subconscious.
Keep writing, no matter what. Don’t erase or cross-out
any words. If you’re heading in a direction you would rather
avoid, start a new paragraph. These accidental forays may be
telltale signs for issues you need to address. And erasing just
takes more time that you could be using to focus on you. Date
each entry in your journal. Note the time, place, and any details
regarding your mood and emotions that will be necessary for context
when you read back on your work.
After you have finished a journal entry, take a walk or get
up for a glass of water before you reread your entry, and remember
to reread this entry with compassion. Then, write an Insight
Line--a sentence or two about what you think the piece is trying
to tell you.
Sometimes this Insight is as plain as day. Other times, it will
take a little reading between the lines. If the subject on which
you are writing is a delicate one, there is nothing wrong with
putting off re-reading it for a few hours, days, even weeks.
Some entries you may not read again at all. The Insight comes
from the act of writing itself, the Insight Line simply helps
you discover it.
The Techniques
There are as many journaling techniques as there are people
who practice the craft. The important thing is simply to explore
the underlying layers of your mind--using whatever conduit works
for you.
Get creative with the techniques you use. We all have a subconscious
mind that communicates to us in a different way. If you are stuck
and have nothing to write, try recording snippets of conversations,
facts, feelings, fantasies, descriptions, impressions, quotes,
images, and ideas. Draw pictures. Make a collage from a magazine.
Use the technique that best suits the way in which you express
yourself. You know your own mind and how it best communicates
with the world. I promise you’ll have an even better sense
of the way in which your mind works after the completion of a
few journal entries.
One method that works well for me, particularly when the ideas
don’t flow on their own, is called clustering. Put the
central idea in the center of the page and circle it. Then, without
pause, make associations, placing them in new bubbles and tying
them to the main idea. The result is a complex matrix of ideas,
many of which you didn’t even know you had. If you wish,
compose these thoughts later into a cohesive essay that says
exactly what you want to say. Or simply move on.
What you need
Paper. The only thing you need is a notebook so your ideas don’t
get lost. Some journal-writers swear by the loose-leaf notebooks
so they can insert pages, but I’m always afraid of losing
some of the more personal pages, and I don’t want anything
to inhibit my ability to write freely and honestly.
Other journal-writers opt for the expensive, hard-bound journals,
reasoning that the journal will be a keepsake. These work just
fine, as long as you are able to write freely in such a formal
book. Some of the things you will be writing will not be pretty.
If you are afraid of making mistakes or you feel inhibited with
this kind of notebook, you’re better off with a plain old
spiral bound from Wal-Mart (my personal favorite.) Some of you
will be creating more drawings than essays. If that’s you,
consider a wire-bound sketch pad.
Pen. Treat yourself to just the right pen. One that makes you
feel important. Test some of the expensive pens. See how they
feel in your hand and how the ink rolls across the page. The
best choice is one that allows you to write quickly and smoothly.
I personally love the easy-flow fountain pens because the color
comes out so bold that it makes me feel more confident. And it
practically glides itself across the page.
Environment. Your journal should always be there when you need
it. Write on the bus, in the office, or late at night when insomnia
strikes. If you have the time, a regular writing ritual can be
very soothing.
If you do wish to write in the same place and at the same time
every day, create the ideal writing space for you. Maybe you’re
most comfortable in a rocking chair surrounded by pillows and
candles and Schubert tunes. Or maybe you prefer silence and a
cherry wood desk or a gentle breeze and a rickety porch swing.
Whether you set a time for writing each day or you do it on
the fly, make sure the time you spend writing in your journal
is time solely devoted to you and your task. Your journal is
designed to nurture you.
Susie Michelle Cortright is the founder and publisher of Momscape,
an online magazine devoted to nurturing the nurturers. Visit
her at http://www.momscape.com, where you may read more inspiring
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